Areas I Coach
Self-acceptance
One of the essential issues I help gay men are having a relationship with their self. Having strong relationships with people in our lives starts with having a strong relationship with yourself. As a gay man, we often feel like we're not enough and doubt ourselves because we don't live the "traditional" society lifestyle. This behavior doesn't serve us. If you need one-on-one coaching familiar with gay men's issues, you have come to the right place.
Gay Couples
Looking for a gay couples coach in New York can be challenging, particularly if you are not sure if the coach is knowledgeable about specific issues that are unique to gay men. Let’s face it – in many ways, gay relationships differ greatly than traditional, straight relationships.
Issues Coaching can assist with:
Improving communications
Exploring issues of infidelity, past and present
Negotiating non-traditional, open relationships
Looking at common goals, including building a family
Sexual compatibility and sexual boundaries
Financial issues and challenges
Extended family issues § Work related challenges
If you are in need of a couples coach familiar with gay men’s issues, you have come to the right place.
Gay Breakup Pain
Heal Faster. Rebuild Stronger. Become the Man You’re Meant to Be.
A breakup hits different for gay men — the layers of identity, community, intimacy, trauma, attachment styles, and past experiences all collide at once. You’re not just losing a partner… you’re losing routines, safety, dreams, and parts of yourself you shared with him.
My coaching is designed specifically for gay men who want clarity, emotional relief, and a path forward without wasting months stuck in pain.
This is personalized, evidence-based, LGBTQ-affirming coaching to help you move through heartbreak with strength and direction.
Relief from Emotional Pain
Learn why the breakup hurts so deeply, how to stop the emotional flashbacks, and how to regain control of your thoughts instead of spiraling.
Clarity & Confidence
Get a clear, structured plan to heal, rebuild self-esteem, and reconnect with your identity outside the relationship.
Break Free from Patterns
Understand your attachment style, relationship patterns, and emotional triggers — so you don’t repeat the same relationship cycle again.
Personalized Support Designed for Gay Men
This coaching recognizes the nuances of:
internalized shame or rejection
emotional intensity in queer relationships
trauma responses from dating in LGBTQ spaces
chosen family, hookup culture, and identity loss
social and emotional dynamics specific to gay men
This isn’t generic breakup advice. This is breakup coaching built for you.
Gay Dating Readiness Coaching
When you’re ready to date again, I’ll help you:
avoid choosing from loneliness
spot red flags early
build emotional safety
date from a grounded, confident place
attract emotionally available partners